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Jay E. Johnson's avatar

As always, Andrew, THANK YOU. I have for many years now focused my attention on the Father in the "prodigal" parable, but you helped me take that a few notches deeper, not least in recommending that we think of the son not as "prodigal" but as "lost" (wonderful parallel with the previous parables). And, oh, thank you so much for the suggestion that this parable is mostly about the "joy of God." THAT's the phrase, right there...and once we release the son from being a "prodigal," and instead seriously lost, divine joy is so obvious. Thank you!

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Oliver Harrison's avatar

Thanks Andrew. "What Do They Hear?" by Powell is brilliant on this passage. (He asked his students why the younger son was starving. The Americans said it was because of his sin; the Russians said it was because there was a famine in the land; the Africans said it was because no one gave him anything to eat. All three are correct but each cohort saw something from their own culture and history as the primary root cause.)

It's the parable of the two lost sons.

Three things struck me.

1.) Slaving Away – Joyless and unappreciated work

“All these years I’ve been slaving for you.”

“Slaving” – how does the son see himself? Not a beloved son but a slave or, at best, as a servant.

So that makes the Father a slave-driver at worst and mere employer at best.

Is that a healthy, happy relationship?

(And “I never disobeyed your orders” = “I never broke a single one of your commandments.” An interesting choice of words considering Jesus is addressing the Pharisees.)

How do we see God?

How do we see ourselves in relation to God?

As sons and daughters or slaves and drudges?

2.) “as soon as this son of yours comes back after squandering your money on prostitutes, you celebrate by killing the fattened calf?!”

“This son of yours” is an odd way to refer to his own brother.

He’s saying: “he might be YOUR son but he ain’t MY brother.”

To change the lyrics of a well-known song: “He’s heavy, he ain’t my brother.”

But notice how the Father replies to him:

“My son, you’re always with me [do I detect a slight groan there?] and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be happy. This brother of yours was dead and is alive again! He was lost, and now he’s found!”

The elder son uses the phrase “this son of yours” but the Father replies by calling him “this brother of yours”

The elder brother says “your son” but the Father reminds him he’s “your brother”.

3.) “Prostitutes”

I love this bit!

The younger son has been away for who-know-how-long and has been getting up to who-knows-what (all we are told is that “he wasted his wealth in wild living” – see verse 13).

And yet the elder son somehow knows, without any proof or evidence, exactly what his little brother has been up to.

And what’s he’s been up to is . . . “squandering your money on prostitutes”.

Woah!

Hold on on there!

Back up a bit!

Prostitutes?

Really?

And you know that, how, exactly?

It’s a wild, unfounded allegation.

It might actually be true but that’s not the point.

The elder son doesn’t know this for a fact.

It’s an odd thing to say.

Not “drink” or “gambling” or anything else, no, “prostitutes”.

Why prostitutes?

I think that says a lot about the elder brother.

It adds to the impression that the older brother is uptight, joyless, self-righteous, and judgmental.

He also has an . . . interesting imagination.

(As a side note it’s interesting that he tells his father that the younger son “squandering YOUR money on prostitutes”

Whose money?

Part of the point of this parable is that it’s not the father’s money, not any more.

The younger son got his inheritance early so it’s HIS OWN money that he’s spent.

But the older son is trying to turn his father against his brother.)

I still love the "prostitutes" accusation though.

Where did he get THAT from?!

He hasn't seen his brother in ages but he miraculously knows what he's been up to in granular forensic detail.

And, of course, it *would* be about sex, wouldn’t it?

Finally, the father’s reassurance that “everything I have is yours” adds a note of justice to the mercy: the younger son will no longer inherit, so there’s no loss to the elder brother.

(Basically: “what’s your problem kid?”)

The younger son sees dad as a cash cow; older son sees him as an employer (worse: slave driver).

Neither see him as a loving dad.

And the older brother’s self-pity and self-righteousness are horrible. (At least the younger one had some fun.)

Why is the older brother so angry?

But let’s on a positive note with the words of the father:

“But we have to celebrate and be happy. This your brother was dead and is alive again! He was lost but now he’s found!”

Amen.

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